Daddy’s birthday is this weekend and we are planning a big party for him again this year. I know that he will have a wonderful time but I admit to being worried. We’ve been so busy, so tired that there hasn’t been time for me or for he and I to play or for sex. I’m worried that when he has a few drinks and is flirting with all the pretty ladies at the party and I am running around so that the party is perfect and taking care of our guests that I will get upset and feel ignored and feel jealous. I’m feeling like such a silly little girl right now. I want to avoid this pitfall but I’m not certain how.